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random dating thoughts
Apr. 2nd, 2009 08:44 amThere is a possibility that it's more important to find someone I love who loves me than to find 'what I want' and I am too attached to finding 'what I want'. There is also the possibility that the previous theory is crap and a kind of defeatism about the inability to get what I want, and what I want is not unreasonable and should be doable.
I'm not a jealous person. I'm good at sharing. What makes me cranky is not getting any, especially when I view the one who is getting some to be unworthy. (jerk guy gets pretty girl)
bad metaphors
Dating is not like buying a house. It's not like considering the options available on the market before making a long term commitment.
Dating is not an interview process. I am not interviewing for a tenure track position (despite how much I like saying 'tenure track relationship') and I should not structure get-to-know-you-activities that in any way resemble interrogations or tests.
I'm not a jealous person. I'm good at sharing. What makes me cranky is not getting any, especially when I view the one who is getting some to be unworthy. (jerk guy gets pretty girl)
bad metaphors
Dating is not like buying a house. It's not like considering the options available on the market before making a long term commitment.
Dating is not an interview process. I am not interviewing for a tenure track position (despite how much I like saying 'tenure track relationship') and I should not structure get-to-know-you-activities that in any way resemble interrogations or tests.
